Let’s clear up some confusion- A miscarriage is different than an abortion. A miscarriage is a spontaneous loss of an embryo or fetus that typically occurs before 20 weeks gestation. I know, those are difficult words to understand! The difference between embryo and fetus is just the different phases of development that a baby goes through in the first trimester. An embryo becomes a fetus around 9 weeks after conception! A miscarriage is thought to be as common as 20-25% of all pregnancies but could be a higher percentage due to many women not even knowing of their pregnancy yet. I’m sure you know of someone who has had a miscarriage, or you may have even experienced this loss yourself. I think it’s important that we all become educated on symptoms and what to do if they begin.
Typically, spotting or bleeding will begin. Bleeding might increase as the cervix opens. Pink discharge or tissue passing from the vagina may also occur. Uterine contractions may be felt in cramping that is typically worse than menstrual cramps. A woman may experience pain in her lower stomach or back. Along with some of these symptoms, weakness or fatigue could occur. Symptoms such as fever, chills, lower abdominal tenderness, or foul-smelling discharge may mean a serious infection is occurring. In this case, a medical provider should be seen as soon as possible.
A range of emotions may be experienced, from grief and sadness to anger. These emotions are normal and it’s okay to take time to grieve the loss of your baby. However, if depression or thoughts of suicide begin, please seek medical help from a trusted doctor or professional mental health counselor. You don’t have to suffer alone. You may can find support from a close family member or friend- even a support group of women who know what you’re experiencing from their own personal experiences. Center of Hope offers this service to anyone seeking support and healing from their loss. Please keep this information I’ve shared with you for your own personal knowledge, but also for the event that someone you know, and love may come to you for support during a miscarriage. And remember, sometimes miscarriages happen and are not caused by anything the mother has done. Give grace, as both grief and healing take time.
Written by McKenzie, Staff Nurse